Why is our directory called Ask Bobby?
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Our free LGBTQ+ directory for community and support is named Ask Bobby in honour of the late Robin Windsor, who passed away suddenly in February 2024.
Who was Robin Windsor?
Robin Windsor was best known to the world as a dazzling professional dancer on Strictly Come Dancing. But to those who truly knew him, he was so much more than the sparkle and footwork. Robin was full of light, laughter, and the kind of presence that made people feel safe and seen. He had a huge heart and an even bigger capacity to care.
Off-stage, Robin was open about his struggles with mental health. He carried more than many realised, and yet still found the strength to speak honestly about the darker moments. He used his platform to shine a light on what so many face in silence—sharing his story to let others know they weren’t alone.
Robin supported mental health causes with passion and sincerity. His work with charities like SANE reflected not just a commitment, but a personal truth: that talking, listening, and showing up for each other could quite literally save lives.
Why is it called Ask Bobby?
Robin’s close friends called him Bobby. It was a name wrapped in affection, trust, and the sense that you could always turn to him—whether you needed advice, support, or just someone to really listen.
Ask Bobby is named in his honour. Because when the world felt heavy, Robin was the person many turned to. And now, through this platform, he still can be.
It’s a way of keeping his spirit close and making sure the care and compassion he gave so freely continues to reach others—especially those navigating their own mental health journey.
What is Ask Bobby?
Ask Bobby is a digital signposting directory created to help LGBTQ+ people find community initiatives, social groups and mental health support that is right for their specific needs.
There are so many brilliant LGBTQ+ organisations, grassroots initiatives, and social groups right across the UK. But too often, people don’t know how or where to find them—especially when they’re struggling.
This platform was created to change that.
Unlike other directories, Ask Bobby focuses on both community and support. It includes well-established mental health charities and services, but also shines a light on smaller, local, and informal community-led spaces—places that often go unnoticed but play a vital role in people’s lives.
We’re building something all-inclusive and all-encompassing. A directory that recognises how vital community, connection, and belonging are to our wellbeing—and how deeply needed they are, especially in LGBTQ+ lives.
Ask Bobby is here to gently say:
We see you. We’ve got you. You are not alone.
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